This is probably a good time to talk a little bit of what I would like to accomplish. First of all, I want to mention how difficult life can be at different stages in life. I know I have struggled a lot in my life, which we can get into later blogs. I am really trying to create an openness among a diversity of people, and to truly captivate them in a way that no matter what they choose to speak about they won’t feel ashamed. I want people to talk, listen, encourage, support, love, and live in peace. Cause these are all things I struggle with in my life.
People say their is so much hate in the world these days, but their lots of love in this world too. It’s easy to look at the negative in your life then the positive. But why can’t it be the other way around? I am not saying you have to be positive all the time, but I am saying look at things a little differently in your life. Think of different ways of thinking. For example, true story! I just got off the phone with my insurance company. I am renting out my apartment, so I was asking about tenant insurance. I was talking to one of their agents we will name him Ben. I explained to Ben I was renting out my apartment and was looking to get tenant insurance. He asked me few questions and I answered them then he asked, “what is the name of my insurance company?” I said “blank insurance company, through your company”. He seemed a little defensive as he said to me, “well you didn’t give me your name”. I said, “all you have to do is ask”. And laughed to try and break the ice a bit. Anyway, to make a long story short. I tried to change Ben mood, it could of been easier to just continue the conversation in a negative way. Obviously if you don’t know the person it will be a little more difficult to change the person’s mood. But you can always try. Maybe try to switch roles, if you were in their shoes. Ask yourself how can I make this conversation into a positive situation. Or I wonder why the person is acting this way? Did something bad happen today in this person’s life? We won’t know why people act the way they do sometimes. But we can try to understand. It could be from your tone of voice when you are speaking or you might just need to listen and reassure the person you are on their side. Certain situations are going to be harder to control and it could possibly get out of hand. If you both switch roles and put each other in the other person shoes you might just turn something negative into a positive situation. Your not always going to be right, about a situation. So be careful how you approach it.
I think we can all learn from each other to make this world a better place. We are all connected, we are all human, we can all have bad days. Don’t let a person’s bad day change who you truly are inside. Don’t feed off the negative. Change your thoughts and you can not only change the way you feel, but how the other person is feeling too.
My goals will be very clear as we move forward together. I have a lot of great ideas to come. If their is anything you would like to discuss please feel free to comment below. I would love to hear from you. Follow my social media links so we can all move in the right direction together. Share and tell your friends!
My next blog I should be writing from back home. Looking forward to sharing my new chapter in my life with you all!